We've kept you waiting for too long....You must be Reddy for that lovely story we promised. So here it is...
There is the most marvelous organization called Canine Companions for Independence. The goal of the organization is to enhance the lives of people with disabilities by providing highly trained assistance dogs and ongoing support to ensure quality partnerships.
Well, that is the official story. Really, the story is much deeper than that. Because the relationship between a person and their service dog is deep and incredible to witness. And the dogs who graduate to become assistance dogs are very special souls, as well.
So we had the pleasure of attending a CCI graduation last friday. But not just any graduation. The graduation of our dear friend, A, with her third service dog...yes, you guessed it, Reddy.
Candidates for matching with a service dog come to the CCI campus for two weeks of intense training. For the first few days they work with a variety of dogs, or so it usually goes. Then a decision is made about which person will be matched with which dog, and the rest of the training is conducted together. It is rather like dating with a chaperone, then having the chaperone announce your engagement. Making the right match is an important decision in both practical terms and emotional ones, too.
But for our friend, A., it was clear from the start that Reddy was the match for her. And it was pretty clear that the trainers thought that, too. Look at this image from the first several days of training - what do you think?
So when we met A for dinner after day 2 of training and she described Reddy and showed us this picture, well, we really weren't surprised when she called us the next day to announce that they formally had been matched. It just seemed right.
Reddy is a beautiful Lab, very white, very strong, with a big head and a big chest and long legs and a big heart. He is sweet and smart. He gives great kisses. He is gentle. And he will take good care of A, and she will take good care of him. There are many people he will touch with his quiet presence. And so going to the graduation, seeing A and the other graduates and their beautiful dogs was a lovely experience.
There are lots of moving aspects to a CCI graduation. I have always said that if you can attend a CCI graduation and don't shed at least one tear (or at the least get a bit choked up), you have a very hard heart. There is lots of emotion and lots of joy. And lots of dog hair...but that is another story!
At graduation, people who have volunteered to raise, socialize and train puppies for their first year return them to CCI for further training. The puppies are said to matriculate. It must be a bittersweet time for puppy-raisers. They have loved these furry souls who entered their homes about a year prior as fuzzy puppies, and now they must give them up, just as they are becoming grown up dogs. Yet, I suspect that each puppy-raiser hopes they will return to a graduation to have the chance to participate in the most lovely ritual - the handover. Because when a person is matched with their service dog, the puppy raiser attends the graduation and formally hands the leash to the person who has been teamed up with their puppy. Really, it is the moment that every puppy raiser hopes for. That the dog they loved and raised has what it takes for this very special job as a service dog.
So this brings us to the final and most surprising turn of events. Our friend works in prison settings. And, it turns out, Reddy was raised by a group of women inmates in a correctional setting. How amazing. When A spoke of the experience of team training, she mentioned this incredible synchronicity. She spoke poignantly of her sense that Reddy had been working ever since he was a little puppy, teaching these women about things like love and responsibility and compassion. And now, Reddy would be able to continue to serve with love, and continue to teach in his new role as an assistance dog.
When I attend a CCI graduation I am always touched by the love and generosity that is involved in the whole enterprise of raising and training and then placing a service dog. But in this case, I think this is a story of redemption, as well. Whatever happened in these incarcerated puppy-raiser's lives, in raising Reddy, they have done something incredible. They have given back. They have made A's life better. They have made the world a better place. I am not sure that what they have accomplished with their generous raising of Reddy can be adequately put into words.
Perhaps this image says it all -
So we celebrate A and Reddy and their partnership. And we celebrate all the people whose love and hearts go into raising and training the puppy that will become a successful service dog. And that includes a group of women behind bars whose difficult life journey has been touched by a puppy who offered them the chance to learn about love, generosity and redemption.
To learn more about Canine Companions for Independence, visit their website: www.cci.org